My brother was 25 and his wife was 47 when they married 20 years ago and have been happy ever since.There are many celebrities where it is working between an older woman and a younger man, this is my brother, though, not a hollywood story. I'm a guy ( ex military), who chased, pursued and married a much older women.Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.3.Fall in love over and over again You will constantly change.After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had:1. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.If you’re a regular reader, you probably knew that I was on the CBS Early Show in July. We wrote two new profile essays that were unique, funny and confident.
The unity and compassion among people which this article brought forth was a beautiful experience to witness. One common idea reverberated among many of the healthy responses: If we make the conscious decision to daily place our spouse’s desires and needs above our own, and that’s reciprocated, the marriage will succeed. The advice in this article can be applied to both genders. But there’s something about my divorce being finalized this week that gives me perspective of things I wish I would have done different… When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. So, after hiring me as his dating coach, we set to work in rebranding him on We had Tom fill out my long questionnaire and submit to an hour of questions from me on the phone.You can see what a great experience it was in this CBS Early Show clip: What I haven’t yet mentioned is that Tom Pandolfo is 5’3″.Another said she’d have considered th Lest you think this is an example of reality TV finding evidence to support a story, Tom tried his own experiment last week. You don’t really need to feel “protected” from the dangers of suburbia. Sure enough, few women give a fair shake to a man who is 5’3”, no matter what else he has going for him. So I tried changing my profile for three days just to see what the difference was between being 5’3″ and 5’10”. And no amount of complaining is going to change it. And why, in God’s name, is it important to stand on your tiptoes to kiss a guy? Is there any legitimate reason not to go out with this amazing, amazing man? I have always belived that ANY person older than 18 should date ANYONE they wish!! If the younger person wants to have sex or what ever, its their own business and no one else's.