Doesn’t sound so good for an intimate relationship. And women have changed, becoming more vocal about who they are and what they are not willing to put up with. Do want a compliant Barbie doll or a real and strong woman?Let’s examine the Cons of going out with a strong woman?He uses words like "dope." Actually, this is sort of cute.10. Every time you're walking, he grabs your hand and sprints to cross at the street the next light before it turns red.Dragging you behind him like you are a horse on its way to the glue factory.12. Theory: People start enjoying morning sex only when they get to the age where the morning is the only time they're not stressed out or exhausted, therefore the ~*~*s Ex Ie St~*~*. Which then leads to him poking his boner into your back at moments when you are least interested. We sit across from one another at the Greasy Spoon diner, reaching over the table to touch hands, caressing thumbs with the tenderness of a violin player. We joke and laugh, we talk, we sit in pure adoration. At the start of it all, the perks of the situation swam happily in my mind. Like most modern women, I felt I only needed a man for one thing, and a coupled lifestyle was not that thing. There would be no awkward morning-afters, no constant phone calls or texts. He loved me and worshipped me and spoke of our future. I know every inch of his face and he knows every inch of mine. If I had never let things progress, I wouldn’t feel the hurt tugging on my heartstrings when we needed to disguise our relationship or feel the jealousy when he went home to his wife, as he always did. I could have all the space I wanted and I would hear no complaints from his end. But what started out as a simple, no-strings-attached relationship (or at least the illusion of one) evolved into much more. Maybe it was the jolt of electricity we both felt when we first met and shook hands or maybe it was our mutual understanding of the other’s troubles. We became each other’s go-to when one of us needed support. However these assets can sometimes work against us, making many middle aged single women appear scary to potential suitors.Questions such as why is she on her own or is she a desperate husband-hunter are probably in a man’s mind before he has even said hello. I spent years frowning and speaking my mind, only to find that stroppy single behaviour may look good on adolescents with attitude but is very unappealing on anyone over 35.
Like "playing the triangle in a Mississippi-by-way-of-Brooklyn jug band," or "Kickstarting a docudrama series he plans to direct, produce, write and star in" or "enjoying a long and fulfilling career that is also his passion and will never require him to do anything he doesn't want to do." Oh, dear. His lack of direction inevitably leads you to start sounding like his parents — sometimes at inappropriate moments, like when your top is off. He still wants to have intellectual discussions with you over dinner because he misses the ones he had in college.
Dating, going out with, or being married to a “strong woman” is not for the faint of heart.
The concept of a strong woman conjures up all sorts of stereotypical images and thoughts. ”Often when I hear men talking about a “strong” woman they are not discussing her in a positive light. and now we loop back up to the qualities listed above in the bullet points.
He's trying some new passion project every week and you have to be supportive of every single one. You have conversations with female acquaintences whose husbands are lawyers or doctors or entrepreneurs who are like "So what does he do? Hahahhaha do you know where the ladies' room is, great, thanks."5. And you wind up not being able to take that trip to Puerto Vallarta because he racked up way too many bar tabs last month.6.
I know he has the energy of a crackhead on a log flume, but nightlife is for youngs.2.